Let’s sorts situations when the passion leaves, but there is an attachment
A huge number of couples faces fading in a relationship. In what it is expressed? Over time the passion leaves, there is an attachment. But besides attachment periodically there is a justified or unjustified discontent with each other, the irritation is saved. We already not so hurry home to darling, we look for an occasion to be late at work, to spend time without it – generally, to have a rest from a relationship. And the more we don’t pay attention, the abyss between us and our partner becomes wider.
All this happens against the background of decrease in interest in intimate life. Quite often someone from two or both ceases to watch himself, having lived many years with one person, begin to perceive him a part of, and it means that it is optional to smarten up, get new things, it is possible once again and to neglect a shower.
In the died-away relationship quite often between partners there is a silent confrontation – such option of cold war when people almost do not communicate and part on different rooms and keep visibility of marriage.
What to do when a relationship fades away fast?
Of course, one of the simplest options is to put an end to fading and to leave. But it is not always a way out, through difficulties and crises there pass one and all couples. Probably, yours not an exception.
Before making the vital decision try to reanimate your relationship for a start.
It is possible to improve relations with the half in different ways. But for this purpose, first of all desire on both sides is necessary.
Therefore, for a start return to living together such basic things as daily communication and tactile contact in the form of touches, strokings, kisses at a meeting and farewell.
At the same time try to give yourself both time, and attention. Especially, if faces a task to win back your partner you. It is impossible to forget such common truth: the man is visual.
Bring effect of surprise and novelty in your relationship. Offer the partner a trip or walk around places which mean to both of you much. Joint memoirs are secret weapon which allows to be adjusted on the necessary harmony.
Use a method of total forgiveness to remove a negativity from your communication. For this purpose, listen to yourself. If the person causes in you any emotions, including offense, anger, etc., so it is impossible to call your relationship died away.
It is considered to be that the love – causes generally positive emotions, a positive and joy. Actually, it far not so. We understand any feelings which are caused in us by the loved one as love. It can be fear, shame, anger, rage, hatred – all these manifestations of love in the distorted form.
If to the person we test a negative – it means that a relationship did not die away. A negative – a peculiar manifestation of love. Therefore, we should learn to redirect this negative to the positive course.